Wedding Season is coming

Wedding season is upon us.  Whether you are the one getting married, or attending, there is a lot to think about.  The bride will have her engagement ring, but maybe she hasn't picked it out yet.  

The virtual worlds open up a world where dreams can come true, and for a little while you are a princess.  You meet your prince and you are swept off your pretty little feet. You dance, laugh and seem to be without a care.  You shop for shoes, and outfits to charm and delight your wonderful new "beau"

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Not only the women get caught up in the fantasy, men do too.  They find someone who is not wanting them to be anything other than they are (at that moment in time.)  If only real life were like that, but never mind, in this story, we are falling in love .  The romantic in all of us, gets to come out and explore the world it is in.

 Dreams are lived, special moments are had that were never experienced in the real world, you find that love can be like living on a cloud.  You can buy land, build a home together, there are no bills to pay, no grass to be cut, and no plumbing that needs fixing.  There is just two hearts beating as one.

There are wonderful designers in Second Life, Luminesse is another designer who offers delightful pieces at reasonable prices.

 What better way to say I love you, then by sharing a part of you that may have been cooped up for a very long time.  You find your pixel self dancing in your partners arms, held close, with sweet words whispered in your ear.  You feel her need just for you, no questions, no demands, just wanting you.  How easy it is to believe it will last forever.

When friends and acquaintances  you know take their vows, or start a relationship where there is a commitment with all your friends to share with you, the time is even busier.  You need to find that perfect dress, the one that will have you being the bride you have always seen in  wedding magazines or in movies.   There are a number of great dress designers in SL who will offer amazing outfits, you will be the diva on the red carpet... your " Oscar" the man of your dreams.

If you are too busy to plan your own wedding, there are wedding planners who will help you. They will help you to not only plan the wedding, some will assist you in getting the church, and the club or special gardens for the receptions anything and everything to do with a wedding.

This is heady stuff, that simple dance in a stranger's arms, has grown into a full blown story book romance.  Or has something else happened  And you have yet to find out.  The difference from RL and SL in this one regard, is that while you are drinking in the moment of being in his/her arms, and cherishing everything about the moment, he or she, can be having a really tantalizing conversation with another avatar

In RL if you have someone in your arms, at that moment, their minds could be elsewhere, but there is no input from another energy, the two energies that are locked in that embrace are yours and the person you are with. 
Still I know many partnered friends in SL and they are true to each other.  They have the confidence in themselves, and the knowledge that behind every avatar in SL there is another human being, a person with a heart and feelings, and they act accordingly.  When a heart or dream is broken, it is real pain, sadness and a feeling a betrayal that takes place.  It is not a fantasy, it is very very real. 

There are no dress up events in SL where shoes don't play an important role, like jewelry, we (women) love our shoes.    You will find the taxis to Felicity Shoes, and to Beloved Jewelry in our side bar--------------------------------->

Now .. entertainment for your wedding events, this is your special once in a lifetime moment, why not consider Live entertainment, not just any kind of live entertainment, search out what will suit your needs and go for it.  There is someone to help you do that too.  Her name is Veronica Weksler  a knowledgeable, dedicated professional who will give it to you straight.  You know her information is current, and she will not steer you wrong.  She auditions and knows all the performers, artist in her group.

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For a good DJ you need only review past blogs for names of some of the best dependable DJ's in the biz.  Each DJ is his/her own personality, find the one that will meet with the need you will have to make your day special.

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I would like to thank all my many contacts/friends who have helped me gather my information and understanding of what happens in SL.  You know who you are, I appreciate your honesty, your open rapport, the loyalty you have shown to your friends, and the generous spirit you have shown in offering friendship to me in my search for "life's lessons".

Love is something that never goes away, when you offer friendship and love follows, it will always live in your heart.  We are all connected, all brother and sisters, SL offers the romantic love to flourish, cherish it, even when it is just a memory.  Every day is a new beginning.

                                            Namaste   -    Oyashikiri